At Crossover Health Services in Tulsa, Oklahoma, we understand that taking your child to the doctor can be a daunting experience for both parents and children. As a parent, you want what is best for your child and their health, but it can be challenging to navigate appointments and procedures with little ones who may be scared or anxious.

That’s why our highly skilled and compassionate team of professionals is dedicated to providing top-notch healthcare services for your child. We strive to create a loving atmosphere where your child feels safe and supported while receiving comprehensive medical care.

In this blog, we want to share some tips on how you can prepare your child for doctor’s appointments and procedures, making the experience a positive one for both of you.

Before the Appointment

1. Talk to Your Child About the Appointment

One of the most effective ways to prepare your child for a doctor’s appointment is by talking to them about it beforehand. This will help alleviate any fears or concerns they may have and give them an idea of what to expect. Explain why it is essential for them to go to the doctor and answer any questions they may have.

2. Use Positive Language

When discussing the appointment with your child, it is essential to use positive language. Avoid using words like “pain” or “hurt,” and instead, focus on the benefits of going to the doctor. For example, you can say, “The doctor is going to make sure you stay healthy,” or “The doctor will help you feel better if you’re not feeling well.”

3. Read Books or Watch Videos

There are many books and videos available that are specifically designed to help children understand what happens during a doctor’s visit. Reading these books together or watching videos can be an excellent way to introduce your child to the concept and reduce their anxiety.

4. Practice Relaxation Techniques

If your child is feeling anxious or nervous, practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing or visualization exercises together before the appointment.

5. Be Prepared with Information

Make sure to bring all necessary information and documents, such as insurance cards and medical records, to the appointment. This will help the appointment run smoothly and prevent any last-minute stress.

During the Appointment

1. Bring Comfort Items

Having something familiar with them can help your child feel more at ease during the appointment. This could be a favorite toy, blanket, or book that they can hold onto for comfort.

2. Play “Doctor” at Home

Another way to prepare your child for a doctor’s appointment is by playing “doctor” at home. Let them take turns being the doctor and patient, and use a toy medical kit if you have one. This can help familiarize them with the tools and procedures they may experience during their appointment.

3. Remain Calm and Positive

Children are highly intuitive and can pick up on their parents’ emotions. It’s crucial to remain calm and positive during the appointment, as this will help your child feel more relaxed. If you are anxious or nervous, it may increase your child’s anxiety as well.

4. Ask Questions

Don’t be afraid to ask questions during the appointment or procedure if you have any concerns. This will help you understand what is happening and allow you to advocate for your child if necessary.

5. Follow Instructions Carefully

Make sure to carefully follow any instructions given by the doctor before, during, and after the appointment or procedure to ensure your child’s health and safety.

After the Appointment

1. Praise and Reward Your Child

After the appointment, be sure to praise and reward your child for their bravery. This could be something as simple as a sticker or a small treat. Positive reinforcement will help build their confidence and make future appointments easier.

2. Address Any Concerns

If your child expresses any concerns or fears after the appointment, take the time to listen and address them. Reassure them that going to the doctor is necessary for their health and that they did an excellent job during their visit.

3. Schedule Another Appointment

Regular check-ups are essential for maintaining good health in children. Before leaving the office, schedule another appointment so your child knows when they will be coming back. This can help alleviate any worries they may have about going to the doctor in the future.

What To Expect As A Parent

As a parent, it’s natural to feel anxious or worried when your child has a doctor’s appointment or procedure. Here are a few things you can expect and how you can take care of yourself during this time:

1. A Welcoming Atmosphere

At Crossover Health Services, we strive to create a welcoming and comfortable environment for both children and parents. Our team is dedicated to making sure that everyone feels safe and supported during their visit.

2. Open Communication

We believe in open communication with our patients and their families. We encourage parents to ask any questions or voice any concerns they may have so that we can work together for the best possible outcome for your child.

3. Compassionate Care

Our team of healthcare professionals is not only highly skilled but also compassionate and understanding. We understand that every child is unique and may have different needs, fears, and concerns. That’s why we strive to provide personalized care for each child in our practice.

4.  Your Child May Cry or Be Upset

It’s normal for children to cry or be upset during procedures, even if they don’t typically show these emotions. This is their way of expressing discomfort and fear, so try not to take it personally.

5.  Take Deep Breaths

If you start feeling overwhelmed or anxious during the appointment, remember to take deep breaths and stay calm. This will help both you and your child remain relaxed.

6. Seek Support

If you need additional support or have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team at Crossover Health Services. We are here for you and your child every step of the way.

Final Thoughts

At Crossover Health Services, we understand that taking your child to the doctor can be challenging, but it is a necessary part of ensuring their well-being. By following these tips and creating a positive and supportive environment, you can successfully prepare your child for doctor’s appointments and procedures. Remember to stay calm, use positive language, and address any concerns or fears your child may have. With proper preparation and support, your child can enjoy a healthy and happy childhood with our comprehensive medical care services. So don’t hesitate to reach out to us at (918) 398-9460 for all your child’s healthcare needs.

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Larry Hytche, MHA, PA-C

Larry Hychte is a skilled physician assistant who has proven his ability to lead teams, coordinate schedules, and represent healthcare professionals on various committees, fostering a collaborative and productive work environment. He has strong interpersonal and communication skills and is effective at facilitating information exchange in healthcare settings. He is dependable and committed to consistently delivering high-quality patient care. He holds his
Master’s in Healthcare Administration from OSU, and his Master’s in Physician Assistant Studies. In his spare time, Larry enjoys playing and watching sports, traveling, and is currently working on building a new community center for the town of Tallahassee.

Holly Bennett, ARPN, CNP

Holly Bennett is a distinguished Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP) and Director of Quality with 19 years of nursing experience. She graduated with a BSN from Samford University and an MSN as an FNP from Old Dominion University. Credentialed by AANP and licensed in Oklahoma, Holly holds Basic Life Support and Advanced Cardiac Life Support certifications. As the Director of Quality, Holly oversees patient safety initiatives and manages software adherence to regulatory standards. Her unique combination of clinical expertise, administrative skills, and commitment to quality and compliance positions her as a valuable healthcare leader. With extensive experience as a Primary Care Practitioner for diverse populations, Holly volunteered as a nurse on medical mission trips, free clinics, and mobile missions to underserved regions. Currently pursuing a Graduate Certificate in Population Health, she remains committed to enhancing her understanding of social and environmental determinants of health.

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Dr. Glenna Wong -Johnson, MD

Dr. Glenna Johnson is a board-certified family medicine physician who has served as a staff physician at Crossover Health Services since 2022. Originally from Maryland, Dr. Johnson graduated in 2019 from Penn State College of Medicine in Hershey, Pennsylvania. She completed a family medicine residency with the “In His Image” Family Medicine Residency Program” in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in 2022. Her interests in medicine include preventative health and community health. She has enjoyed being a part of the North Tulsa community, where she lives with her husband and their daughter. In her free time, she enjoys reading, going on nature walks, and spending time with friends & family.

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Dr. Natalie Schaller, DO

Dr. Natalie Schaller has served as Chief Medical Officer of Crossover Health Services since August 2023. She earned her undergraduate degree from Minnesota State University, Mankato, double-majoring in Spanish and Human Biology. Following undergrad, Dr. Schaller attended Kansas City University for medical school and was awarded the National Health Service Corps Scholarship. After completing her Family Medicine residency in Tulsa, Oklahoma, she started as Medical Director of the FQHC in Iowa in 2013. Along with her educational background, Dr. Schaller brings ten years of experience as a Medical Director for a Federally Qualified Health Center (FQHC) in Storm Lake, Iowa, and a passion for serving diverse, under-resourced communities. In this role, she oversaw daily clinic operations, supervised and trained staff, implemented policies and procedures, and participated in inpatient coverage. She exercised creative problem-solving during COVID-19, creating an outpatient clinic for diagnosing and treating cases. Dr. Schaller was awarded ‘Provider of the Year’ among Iowa’s FQHCs in 2022. Proficient in Spanish, she has participated in multiple medical relief trips overseas to Ukraine, Afghanistan, Malawi, Kenya, and Nepal. She also volunteered for ten years with a non-profit empowering marginalized youth in Storm Lake, showcasing her dedication to health and wellness in children. Dr. Schaller blends her FQHC and volunteer experience to bring healing and restoration to the local community of Tulsa.

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Dr. Tyler Whitaker, DO

Dr. J. Tyler Whitaker is a board-certified family medicine physician currently serving as the Chief Executive Officer of Crossover Health Services in Tulsa, Oklahoma – a position he has held since 2023. Dr. Whitaker earned his Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine degree from the Oklahoma State University College of Osteopathic Medicine in 2012. In 2015, he completed his internship and residency, serving as Chief Resident, at In His Image Family Medicine Residency at St. John Medical Center in Tulsa.  Dr. Whitaker has remained a part of the St. John staff, serving  as a hospitalist caring for inpatients, both there, and at Tulsa’s Hillcrest Medical Center. Passionate about individual and community health and dedicated to domestic and global health outreach, Dr. Whitaker has volunteered on medical missions to Haiti, Iraq, Nepal, Nicaragua, and Ukraine. He and his family of five have lived and served in the community of North Tulsa since 2012. In his free time, Dr. Whitaker enjoys doing anything with sports and outdoor activities.

How To Prepare Your Child For A Doctor’s Appointment

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